At one point or another, each and every girl and woman, will play around with the idea of getting married and having a baby of her own…It is not a secret that all females are born with a maternal instinct: "an inborn tendency to want to protect and nurture one's offspring." This instinct may be one of the greatest reasons why we, females, tend to have this bond with every infant we meet!
The reason behind me raising this issue now is due to the fact that many females I've come across seem to fancy the idea of getting married just because they want to give birth, they want to have a baby of their own. The idea of marriage in itself has become so insignificant to them, the magical story of two people falling in love, getting married and starting a family together, does not seem to impress or attract them!
It is sad, really, how our own experiences with the world, especially the "wrong" type of men, and those stories we hear from others, can actually hinder this rather strong notion of wanting to build a family and replace it with the single desire of having a kid!
I can recall the exact words of one of those girls while she talked on and on about men, her experiences and her disappointments. She said to me: "Now, after all that, all I want is to get married for the sake of giving birth legally! Then, the man can just go, and I will handle everything on my own. I will be the mother and the father and I will provide my baby with all she/she needs. I don't need a man in my life!"
Has the time to really think that way come? I mean if the smart and beautiful women end up thinking this way, which end is our world heading towards??
2 comments:
well, i don't agree 100% with u with this subject!!
cuz u didn't even think of the guys opinion about the same subject...
do u think that girls only dream of loving someone who could make their lives easier and get married and have children???
a lot of guys have the same dreams too... but the thing is that girls, mostly, do not think from their minds as much as they think from their hearts... so, sometimes, it is clear to everybody including the guy and the girl in the relationship that it's going no where in the future "logically"... but the girl does not think of it like this, she just thinks that she is in love, this guy is the love of her life... even though sometimes he causes her a lot of pain she can't stand it anymore... but girls always end up saying: there is no love without pain, there is no perfect life, u r not in love if u didn't bear the other part, love is bigger than these fights... and so on...
what i'm saying is that girls think a lot from their hearts not their minds and that's the main reason for their sorrows and pains...
and girls always think that if they fell in love with a guy, they can change him... but that's not true... no one can change no one... u loved the guy, u loved him because of who he is, not what u want him to be!!!
so, my advice for females, think more from ur mind and don't let ur heart control the whole situation, cuz that's why guys don't suffer that much as girls... i'm not trying to be a racist here... i'm just making some points clearer... and i've said that not all girls do this and not all guys do that...
yee u r right
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